Grief · Identity · What Comes After
My wife Melissa died in May 2025. This is the record of what happened to who I was, after — and an open hand to anyone walking through the same kind of dark, whatever caused it.
Free — Grief First Aid Kit
What to do in the first impossible days.
A short, plain-language guide for the part nobody prepares you for. No spam — just the kit, and new entries when they go up.
Start Here
The video that marks where this journey actually begins.
Fifteen minutes that gives you the context for everything else on this site.
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The first real entry — context for everything after.
Field Notes
This space will hold newsletters, essays, and the longer pieces that don't fit in fifteen minutes on camera. Nothing published here yet.
Resources
What to do in the first impossible days — the same PDF offered above, if you scrolled past it.
Download the PDF →A place to talk with others further down the same road. (Link pending.)
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